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Work at home moms have a secret advantage
in the romance department
Work at home moms, when was the last time you enjoyed, and I mean really enjoyed, a sunset together with your spouse on your own patio?
If you're like most American families today chances are it was almost too long ago to remember.
But if you're one of the thousands of work at home moms you've got a secret advantage and you can put that advantage to work in creating a more loving, romantic and meaningful marriage.
How can work at home moms enjoy a better love life?
1. Use your time alone in the house to spread little “I Love You’s” all around the house where only he will find them… in the refrigerator, in his favorite bag of snacks, in his dresser drawer, suit pocket, shower, shoes, briefcase. What the heck, put a note in tons of his clothes. Work at home moms are a creative bunch. Use your creativity to place them in strategic places so he won't find them all at the same time. Such little hidden goodies have also been known to accidentally save work at home moms from arguments and boring, routine times by springing up when least expected.
2. Work at home moms use your work at home time to run secret errands… buying gifts or getting them engraved, for example.
3. Work at home moms need REST. Even if you work at home, kids can wear you out. A little rest might be a better aphrodisiac and a better gift than any order of oysters or the nicest gift you can think of. Isn’t that what he wants more than anything else… to feel really important and special to you? If you’re rested and caught up you can listen better and become more involved with what your hsuband is saying to you. Listen to him. Treat him like he's the center of your universe. There’s nothing better for your marriage than some really good communication and private time. But it’s hard to give that to someone when you’re totally exhausted and overextended. Maybe some rest for you is the nicest gift you can give him.
4. Work at home moms can prepare special meals or goodies during the day, then hide them and serve later. People who don’t have work at home jobs rarely have the chance to get away with this since they must prepare the food while he is in the house to spoil the surprise.
5. Work at home moms, get out your pen. Write him a romantic letter. Free and simple, but so very precious. Tell him how much he means to you… how happy you are that you met him… and most of all, how you can’t possibly imagine your life without him. Thank him for every little thing you can think of. Make him feel really appreciated. Letters like that are saved for a lifetime. No over-priced gift store greeting card can match that.
6. For work at home moms whose spouse works at an office, is there any way he might be able to, uh, get away from his office for awhile to meet you, uh, at your home office, for, uh, a special private, uh, meeting? Tell him you need him at home because something broke or you don’t feel well or something. Alas, the surprise. You know what to do from there.
We work at home moms have many advantages. As work at home moms we can often be better wives and partners to our husband and enjoy more fulfilling, gratifying relationships. We also have less stress, more time for ourselves and for our families, we eat better, save money and help the environment. The extra romance is just the oh so wonderful -- icing on the cake!
This article for work at home moms was provided by Jobsformoms.com.
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